On My Mind: My Confrontation With Lauren

12/02/2008
In last night's episode, Lauren and I resolved things ~ I guess third time's the charm!  After the smoke finally cleared we were both able to sit down and have an actual adult conversation.  I didn't ask to be informed, falsely or otherwise, that my "best friend" and my "boyfriend" were involved in some carnal activity.  It was very disturbing to have a rumor, that could have easily been killed, thrown in my face over and over again. 

I just want to put it on record that never did I EVER call Lauren a "slut," "bad friend," "shady person," etc... I simply asked her a question and that's how she interpreted it.  I didn't go around town running my mouth either.  I confided in Heidi because she knows how Lauren works and when Lauren hung up on me and was acting like a child, I obviously thought the worst.  I do always find it interesting to watch the episodes and see what senseless gossip people come up with!

Bottom line, Justin and Lauren treating me like I wasn't worthy of an explanation was almost worse than the rumor itself, and it only got worse the harder I tried to get a genuine answer.  Instead, I got screamed at and they both got super defensive.  Let me just remind everyone that this rumor didn't appear out of thin air, they were both at the same place at the same time, but apparently what was said to have happened never actually did.  I am very glad this whole thing is over and this blog will be the last time I address the issue.

As for Justin, his inexcusable behavior has become somewhat expected at this point and I just want to say that if I were looking for a serious relationship, I would definitely be looking elsewhere!  Dealing with a situation such as this one, where the two people who you really need to talk to are the very same two who turn their backs on you and treat you like you mean nothing, has really opened my eyes.  I have never been one to hold grudges though, life is just too precious.  So I guess I learned a very valuable lesson this week ~ communication is NOT key, so if something bothers you, keep your mouth shut and smile, or you will end up apologizing later. :)
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106 Comments:

Audrina -

I loved your blog - seems true to your heart. I would not in a million years trust Lauren at all. She sure has changed over the last 2 years. Thinks she is a big time celebrity and all. Right now, Heidi is looking like the sweet person that Lauren USED TO BE. Sometimes it's hard to accept the fact that a person that you thought was a true friend, isn't one at all. Obviously, her true colors came out and it's good that you finally see it. She handled the entire situation "very shady" and seemed like she had something to hide. Just accept the fact that you will never really know the exact truth, but that you did learn that you cannot trust her or have her as a close friend anymore. Everything happens for a reason! Thank you for continuing to be a very genuine person! Good luck!


glad it's behind u! I've been in the same situation at it sucks. keep moving, strong! :D
/anki - team sweden


Hi Audrina,

After watching last night's episode, I was really saddened that you couldn't fully admit you were wrong, and still can't. While you definitely had the right to be upset about the whole rumor, I think there could have been a more rational way to handle the situation. This behavior from you was really surprising to see because you always seem so calm and level headed. Lauren and Justin would have definitely responded better as a result - or so I think. While I'm no where close to being a celebrity, I think that when you're a celebrity your true friends are far and few between. When one of those friends betrays you because a rumor, that hurts a lot - its probably like having a gossip columnist in your own living room. I wish Lauren and Justin would be more understanding of your side too. You had to deal with so much! I think that most girls can relate. Im sure its all good now, so my comment is worthless haha. Especially since, I am only a fan! lol


Hi Audrina,

First of all, don't listen to the negative comments because I'm positive they don't have all the facts and are being quick to judge. Obviously, there are many things that were now shown on The Hills about the whole situation. You handled things the best way you could and the only way you knew how. I'm sure you learned something vaulable from this experience. I know you were going through tough times, so I'm glad it's behind you now. Move forward and focus on your career. Good luck and stay positive. :)

xoxo,
love from Chicago.


I totally agree with you. You were the victim in all of this not Lauren or Justin. He has played with your head and emotions so often that how can you trust him? He speaks in riddles and rhymes and you just never know with him. Lauren always calls him disgusting but Jason was the gross one, not Justin. She goes overboard in her display of disgust for him. It's almost as if she's attracted to him but trying too hard to cover it up. I would be confused too if no one would talk to me either initially. Lauren is controlling and if you don't do what she wants or act the way she wants then your out of the 'group'. That's lame.


Hey Audrina~
I am a big fan of yours and the Hills as well. I think its lame that everyone is hating on you for even asking Lauren and Justin Bobby about the rumour. If they are your closest people I think you did deserve an explanation. When they couldn't just give you a flat out Yes or No answer and turned it back on you, of COURSE you would question. Thats natural of ANYONE to do whether it's best friends or family. I felt so bad for you and felt sorry when I saw what happened. I don't think Lauren did it but still she shouldn't have been so in-your-face about "Why would you even think that OMG?!?!"
And if the source was so sure and you have been through this B.S. with Justin Bobby, its obvious you would question. ESPECIALLY when they WEREN'T giving you a flat out answer OR if the source "swore on his life". If you have found out stuff like this about Justin Bobby through people "swearing on their life" that they had seen or heard stuff he did behind your back, how else are you suppose to feel? How would he have proved himself different? So, i think you handled it with as much dignity and also, its natural to get mad and everyone says B.S. when they are. Including Justin Bobby & Lauren. Hang in there, your a sweetheart!!


For all the people who are being rude, screw you. How would you feel if you heard this about your two friends? I would probably react the same way. Audrina, I'm glad everything is solved..this will make your friendship with Lauren stronger. I love you, you rock!


maybe im wise beyond my years or not a teeny bopper fans. i grew up watching laguna beach and the same age as you audrina.

If my friend came to me asking if i did anything i would calmly say no, nothing is going on. and would continue to be calm about it because you know what?! IT FUCKING SUCKS TO BE CHEATED ON AND ME AS A TRUE FRIEND WOULD UNDERSTAND THAT NOT GET PISSY AND HANG UP AND TALK SHIT ABOUT IT. lauren was NOT mature how she handled the situation at all!

My Best friend of 10yrs cheated with my bf when i accused her she denied denied denied.. then she couldnt keep up with her lies so then it turned out to be yes i kissed him but i didnt sleep with him.. then it turned to yes i did sleep with him but i was drunk i didt know what i was doing.. so give me a fucking break to all these people bashing audrina. she has every right to ask and keep asking if she doesnt trust. maybe it should be you audrina to consider whether or not lauren is a trustworthy friend to keep.

one more thing. is heidi friends with lauren??? is spencer?? NO!! and you know what they still make bank period.. so keep this shit about audrina needs lauren nobody needs anybody..

you people are truly pathetic!


audrina listen to me, honestly the same thing happened to me just a few months ago. my best friend for 4 years (4 YEARS) hit on my boyfriend behind my back and they kissed. i didn't find out about it until 4 months later of probing and begging everyone for answers, and then finally the truth came out when my boyfriend finally told me. its the worst feeling in the world and i felt like literally dying for weeks. i know exactly how you feel and i hate how MTV tried to make it look like it was you that needed lauren's forgiveness rather than the other way around. i think to be honest lauren is a little shady and a bit jealous. and she says you aren't treating her like a friend? how about when her and lo completely ditched you when you all moved in. i know you probably don't even read these, and i am just an observer of all of this but i don't think lauren is worth trusting and i have this feeling that she probably did it. and honestly audrina you are the only reason i watch the show. you seem genuine and you have like, my dream job. i love rock music too! i'm drifting away from the point....ummm basically i say move on. i really liked justin bobby until he kissed that red head at that club like right in front of you. when that happened i seriously like felt your pain. you've got to move on from him love. and as for lauren, if she's going to dance around the issue and not give you a dignified answer than she's not your friend. hey and listen if you are ever in boston, i know a bunch of amazing rock clubs if you want to party!


Im just glad that everythin is fine again i knew u 2 would be friends again!!


Plus all rumors come from some sort of truth. remember that

Lauren is a Hoe ass bitch

and i love this blog, cuz you KNOWWW she did that shit, shes disgusting.


audrina you rock! don't let all these haters drag you down. i find it amazing that they take the time to read your posts and then doing nothing but sit and criticize, when in actuality they're the ones that need to grow up... get a life besides blogging about someone you don't even know.


Audrina - I absolutely L-O-V-E your makeup in last weeks episode (where you confront LC and Justin). Can you please please tell me what colors/brands your wearing on your eyes and cheeks (your cheeks are glowy and to die for!). I would really really appreciate it, thanks!!!


GOOD FOR YOU...
it is about time someone stood up to that self riteous little girl.. the only thing i fault you for is not punching Lo in the face at some point through out the show.. well there is always next season.. hang in there


Oh god! Fuck Lauren. She just loves drama.

You know that if she thought YOU were fooling around with a guy she was dating, she would cut you out of her life before even asking you about it.

TEAM AUDRINA!


Audrina-

I am the first person to admit when I am wrong...and in this situation, I think that everyone that was apart of it could have handled it better. I think that instead of second-guessing and asking Lauren and Justin over and over again whether or not they hooked up, you should have taken their first answer, and their shocked responses, as a clue that this did not happen. And for the first time ever, I thought the Justin getting up and walking out of the restaraunt was the BEST thing he could have done. All he should have had to say is, "No, of course not," and then you say, "Okay...well I felt like I needed to ask because such a "good" friend told me about it." In both situations, that could have been the end...plus, for the two of them to hook up is unbelievably ridiculous! They both dislike each other from what we see and the fact that you would think it is true that they would hook up is almost the worst part. Honestly, I would feel the same as Lauren and Justin in the situation. Think if you were on the other side of things and someone spread a rumor that you hooked up with whoever Lauren was dating and not only did she ask you about it, but she led you to believe that you actually thought it was true. The best thing to do is put yourself in that person's shoes as well...not just wonder why they cannot adjust to YOUR situation and how YOU are feeling. You affected more than you thought you did and all you would have needed to do is trust. And talking to Heidi?? Oh goodness...what were you thinking with that? Of course she is going to say bad things about Lauren...she is angry with her and blinded.

I guess the real question is: why do you not trust the people in your life that you call your "closest" friends?

Every experience is a learning experience...and I hope that you and other people who watched learned from it as well.


Its funny when people hear rumors and assume the worst. The friendship between the both of you guys should have been beyond what Justin even offered. People are blinded by love and you were one of them. Im sorry to say this but it was just a dumb move to have him in your life for over 3 years. Its time to grow up and realize that childish games need to be put away. I hope all the drama is worth it to lose great friendships and keep loser boyfriends.


Wasn't it a little immature of of you to behave the way you did? The fact that you were the one in the end that had to apologize doesn't that say something. Seriously, you need to grow up. It's so sad to see a women acting like a highschool adolescent.


What YOU did was way uncool. You let a mediocre guy come between you and a TRUE friend. Then YOU tried to twist it to make yourself look like a victim. And you went to HEIDI for advice? What were you thinking? Sorry, but you could have handled this one with much more class & intelligence. You SHOULD be a role model, but you are nothing more than a classic example of how NOT to be because of a guy.


Hey,
As I'm from Germany I really hope you excuse my bad English.. :( I really have to say that I was kinda shocked when I heard about the rumor that Lauren and Justin.. uuh. And I can absolutely understand the way you reacted to that, asking both of them and not being sure that the rumor was nothing but a baaaaad try to push the girl that you always cared for the most away from you. BUT I think that later, after both of them told you more than once that THEY DID NOT HOOK UP and even your sister admitted she thinks that you should apologize you should be able to realise that it's you who is to blame for the broken friendship and, let's be real, there will always be a kind of suspense between you. Of course, Lauren is to blame for behaving like a princess who once got told she was not perfect but you should see that it's up to you now to admit you were wrong.
However, I really like you and I always liked you and Lauren because you always reminded me of me and my best friend.. so keep going, stay the way you've been 'cause you never seemed to be a lost person.
AND: PLEASE, PLEASE.. GIVE JUSTIN BOBBY MR. SUPER-EGOISTIC A HEAVY KICK IN HIS HAIRY ASS AND GO FOR SOMEONE WHO REALLY APPRECIATES YOU!
kisses from cold and rainy Germany!


Let me just say this, I totally understand confronting the rumor. But you never asked. You jumped down Lauren and justin's throats as if that was cool. And it wasn't. You basically listened to a nasty rumor and thats sad. And I'm sorry you wouldn't have anything if you weren't on the Hills with Lauren and Heidi. You prved you ran your mouth by putting in your blog above that you told Heidi. It wasn't Heidi's business in the first place and how do you explain Brody knowing. Lord knows Spencer and Heidi supposedly don't talk to him. I think you're the shady one in this and Karma is a bitch


talking about it on letterman and ellen counts for running your mouth all over town, fyi.

you simply say the bad things they did, but leave out your mistakes... and i'm betting this comment will be deleted as well. instead of opening your eyes you simply choose to brush it off. can someone say self-righteous?

why try to patch things up with lauren if you obviously still see yourself as the victim?

you got hurt, too. but lauren's hurt because of YOU, audrina.. and you pretty much brought the hurt on yourself when you believed the rumor.

haven't you figured out by now that crazy rumors are made up about celebrities all the time? OH no wait, if you're going to HEIDI for advice, you must be pretty friggen stupid.


I'm sure it hurt to hear that rumor, however I TRUST and RESPECT my best friend and boyfriend. If I ever heard a rumor like that I'd laugh in the face of the person who told me, then laugh with my best friend and boyfriend over how ridiculous it was...

Maybe if you dated a guy who wasn't sleeping with other women regularly you'd have the self esteem to see how ridiculous the rumor was in the first place. But since that is not your situation, I am suddenly finding myself going from liking you to wondering why in the world you chose to make more drama for your friend Lauren? She said no. That should have been enough. Instead you badgered her in life and in the press. I thought you'd redeemed yourself with your apology but now I read this blog and see your apology wasn't sincere. And that makes me sad for you.


Hey Audrina....I think all these people bashing you are the real idiots! From what I see on The Hills, Lauren used to be a nice person. Now she's nothing but a cold witch. I have always been on Team Audrina.


I'm so glad you all made up. Unfortunately some people don't understand that we need to confront them when a rumor comes about involving a best friend and a boyfriend. All I have to say is, follow your heart and stick with your gut and I'm sure this will never happen again. Things like this just helps us realize who belongs in our lives and who doesn't. Justin Bobby is definitely not worth your time and you can find a better guy. Good luck :)


Hi Audrina,

your final moral sounds so sad! I hope it was said out of sarcasm that you do not believe in communication any more, because it actually is the key! I guess this all went the wrong way, but still I believe you can talk to the people around you if issues concern you! This is what friends are for, and this is what they will be there for for you.

I guess it is rather the communicating directly with the people and not about them with third parties that might cause problems. But I am convinced that you find your way! I hope you are better and do not feel that lost any more. I hope you have loving people around you in Christmas time. I am convinced that you'll find who you are again! I wish you all the best!

Yours - Ramona from Germany


Audrina,

Just wanted to say that I understand the situation you went through. After hearing something like that and the rocky relationship you've had with Justin...I think you had every right to freak out a little bit. You trust Lauren, that doesn't mean a story can't scare the living shit out of you and cause you to act like you normally might not. Kudos to you for apologizing though. Live and learn girl!

Lauren


Audrina,

I think you're probably a nice person and you probably mean well... but Lauren and Justin BOTH have told you that they can't stand each other. Lauren really does think that Justin is disgusting! (I'm sure he feels the same about her!) The fact that you would even *think* of accusing them (you did accuse...) of sleeping together or making out or whatever the case may be is appalling! I heard a rumor that Perez Hilton told you this... do you really need to listen to what Perez says? He likes to START rumors! Hello, girly!! Dino (whoever that may be) is laughing at you for actually believing him! If you need to be angry at anyone- it's this "Dino" character. (Who names themselves after a purple cartoon dinosaur anyway?)...

I'm definitely not a fan of Justin Bobby, but I think he was perfectly in line when he spoke to you in the restaurant. You needed to hear that. He actually was upset when you said that you thought you'd lost Lauren... and that was the first good thing I saw about him. He realizes how much Lauren means to you... and maybe the guy is a shithead, but I don't think he'd do anything to take Lauren away from you.

I've been in your situation before, and I know how hurt and angry you can be...and I actually jumped to conclusions in my situation as well... but I only ended up hurting me...

Don't hurt yourself. Get facts and proof before you make accusations.. or... if you're going to ask someone something controversial- take a breather yourself first. Don't go at them all upset or they won't want to talk to you.

I truly hope you patch things up with Lauren and this doesn't become a Heidi situation. Trust that Lauren really loves you and wouldn't lead you on or lie to you. I really sincerely hope that Lauren and Heidi can patch things up between them as well. Spencer just needs to grow up a little bit.

You should never let a man come between your friends.

It will get better,
<3


Wow, Audrina...the overwhelming and very intelligent sentiment on this blog all day has been very NEGATIVE regarding your behavior towards LC and JB and the rumor incident. Madly erasing all of those entries will not alter the fact that your envy of LC speaks volumes about who your are. And, who that is needs a lot of work.


Audrina,
You asked Lauren if she hooked up with Justin Bobby and she said no because she didn't. What was she supposed to explain. Also, I would turn a back on a friend who asked me repeatedly if I slept with her boyfriend and I didn't because at that point you're accusing. What would you think if Lauren turned around and asked you over and over if you slept with a guy she was dating that you actually didn't sleep with? I imagine you would be hurt because it shows that your friend doesn't trust you.


I have been watching The Hills from the beginning. Here's my 10 cents worth of advice. One of the main problems with dating a 'bad boy' casually 'because you are not ready to be serious' (as you kind of mentioned in another episode) is that over time we fall in love with the guys we spend time with. This whole issue was about trusting Justin really and with your trying to deal with infidelity as an issue. It just all heaped up into one big mess because you really are mad at Justin for treating you so 'casually' when you do love him. If he had been a true-er kind of guy to you in the past, you would never have considered believing ANY of this about him--with any girl--let alone your friend Lauren. I am not saying Justin has to change if he doesn't want to be serious. But you do need to admit to yourself that you ARE ready to be serious. And if he can't match that with you, then you need to move on to a good guy who is ready to commit more. It seems to be what you need and are ready for now. You and Heidi both need to think things through better. Your guys are playing you and you are putting up with bad behavior just because you love them and are afraid to move on.


Audrina,

I know what it's like to have someone hurt you so badly it can mess with your head, and make you start questioning who you can trust in your life. Obviously, I cannot tell what all happened in the Justin/Lauren situation, but be careful not to let Justin be the "Spencer" of your life. Heidi has lost all of your friends and family because Spencer is crazy, and pushes them away. Don't let Justin do that to your life. There are only so many chances you get with people, and you should try to be more careful with your girlfriends so you don't lose them. It was cool that you apologized to Lauren for handling the situation badly (blogging about it, talking about it on Ellen, etc.), but it's like you completely erased that apology with this blog you put up today. If you're not really sorry; don't fake it. The public will have more respect for you if you stop pointing fingers and start taking responsibility for letting your emotions for Justin get out of control and turn you into a paranoid girlfriend.

PS
Why have a place for fans to leave comments, but then go through and delete the ones that you feel make you look bad?


Dear Audrina,
Listen, I'm a fan and I def like you. But WAKE UP! Yes you had to confront the situation. But you should have believed your best friend FIRST and that should have been good enough when she said no. AND you should have done it in a classy way by saying I know this is crazy but this person was saying this stuff and I just gotta ask to get it out there. BUt then it should be over with. Lauren has told u time and time again that JUSTIN ISNT A RELIABLE guy. BUT EVEN JUSTIN handled it actually good with what his level headness. LOOKing for an explanation over and over again isn't trusting and believing in your best friend. LAUREN NEVER LIKED JUSTIN- CHECK OUT THE FOOTAGE!!! SHe LOVVVVVVVVVVES you and would never hurt you! I don't think you should be so offended and say next time I'll just keep my mouth shut and believe rumors and not say anything. Why after resolving things would you say that to hurt Lauren?! You're a great girl but just get over trashy Justin Bobby. You romance his image too much. You're a very beautiful girl and I love hearing about your tips on here. Please go back to being true friends with Lauren. I can't wait till you go for the SEXY guy who is TOTALLY SWEET! When you do, then you keep him ... not the guy who can't see ur value to begin with. FRIENDS BEFORE GUYS ALWAYS! Much love to you!


Oh, and the guy who is worth your time will smile at the mention of your name, he'll never want you guys to be broken up, he'll want to do romantic dates with you, he'll want to do the things you want to do, he'll be proud of you and ask you to be his gf, and before that, he'll be sad if you say that you have other dates and what does he think about that ... then you'll know he's a KEEPER! xoxo


UGH how i disagree. I think you should have approached it differently rather than tell your friend "Lauren hooked up with Justin". You didn't know. And you all know how many rumors are false these days. You should;ve approched it like "lauren- can we talk? i heard a crazy rumor and i just want to talk to you before i come to any conclusions" laurens been nothing but a good friend to you and you need to respect that


Honestly what did u expect? U of all people know how repulsive Lauren thinks that Justin is and even if u didn't a real friend would not even ask the question. They would know that it was a lie. I completely agree with Lauren saying that if u truly trusted her and knew her u would know that she wouldn't do that. Why would she explain if u asked her and even though I don't think that she should have answered u she told you NO. Then u repeatedly asked her over and over again. Not only that but you were really shady because u texted everyone even Stephanie that was lame... if u had an issue with Lauren why would u go running your mouth to every one else, it was none of their business and that is probably y she didn't want to hear from u. I don't blame Lauren or Justin ( who i didn't like because of the way he treated u but now I'm not so sure ) for the way they reacted. Food for thought: If ur best friend accused u ( if u ask about it that is an accusation because if u didn't think that it was true u wouldn't ask) of hooking up with her boyfriend how would u feel? BETRAYED

U really need to deal with ur issues and FYI stop playing victim. I respected u a lot more and u were one of my favs. U perpetuated the rumor because without ur blogs and ur public interviews no one would have known but hey i guess the publicity was better than ur relationships.


Audrina, I totally agree with you. To approach somebody and have them get mad at you for just getting to the bottom of it is so messed up on their part. It sounds like the info came from a pretty reliable source and both of them wouldn't be so defensive if they weren't in denial! I think it happened and they will do anything to protect their reputations, including lying to you! If I were in Lauren's position, I would have made sure you found out the truth instead of hanging up. Bitch was probably scared! and yeah I heard she's a mega bitch from somebody that you are friends with. Please dont stay friends with them, you are such a nice girl!!


audrina--

Not even sure whetber you read these comments, whether you take any truth from them, or why the hell I'm even leaving one, to be honest.

BUT, given the opportunity--here's my two cents:

Based upon what we are privy to (i.e., the edited and cut versions of "life" portrayed on mtv), I think both you and everyone else knows that LC was entitled to an apology. Imagine, if you will, if Lo had heard a rumor that LC had hooked up with her ex (or even current unidentified fling), and Lo descended upon LC in a rage and demanded to know what went on. You KNOW you would be angry on behalf of LC, and you would totally take her back.

While it would, of course, as you point out, be completely natural to "ask the question," what is completely unnatural is to ask it again. And again. And again. Your repeated inquiries and, yes, "accusations," belied your averred "trust," and legitimately caused your friend pain. And for that, you should have apologized.

As to LC, if it is true that you were not calling her a "slut" or a "shady friend" or any of those other harmful things, then, indeed, LC is, to some degree, guilty of the same thing you are. But, consider this: LC's willingness to believe whatever rumors about you "running around town" was sparked by your immediate suspicion and distrust, while yours.... well what was it that sparked your willingness to believe that LC could to do you quite possibly the very worst thing a girlfriend could ever do? Therein lies the crux of your relationship with not only LC, but with Justin, and likely every other human in your life.

You were quite right, Audrina, when you tearfully and honestly realized that you had "lost who you really were." And who was there to give you a shoulder to cry on? However hurt and angry she had been? One thing you and everyone else knows about LC--she can never ever turn a friend away when she's in need. As an earlier commenter noted--those friends are "few and far between," celebrity or not.

Well there's my $0.02--er $10. My first and last time commenting on one of these!!

I'm 29 years old, I've got a great job, married the love of my life (my college sweetheart), live in a huge house, with two adorable dogs. But I have no close girlfriends--and that's why I'm such a huge fan of your show. You girls have something many do not. Don't throw it away for a "Homeboy who wore combat boots to the beach!!"


Girl, I just want to say I love you and I think Lauren has major double standards. In an US magazine article didn't she talk about having trust issues with friends and how she was always making YOU prove yourself to her. Seems like the pot calling the kettle black here. I would watch myself around her, I really would. Because how this whole rumour situation became about HER? Funny how some people think the whole world revolves around them. Anyway, I just wanted to say you are my favourite and an awesome girl and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise! Keep your head up you have a lot of fans out here, me included. love ya! xxx


Lauren IS a child. How many times have we heard her scream "it's not my fault" I didn't do anything" Oh please! It's funny how SHE is the person ALWAYS having problems with friends. I am team Audrina


audrina

your in the WRONG! stop playing victim. you say she ran to the media! you did sweetie by going on ellen, and writing shit on myspace. i deleted you from my friends list. you are not a role model. you and heidi and spencer are only famous because of lauren! you started this not lauren. shes innocent in this. your life is boring, so, you had to make up some shit to have at least a good episode. to bad it probably costed u your friend ship with lauren. she doesnt deserve a friend like you.


I agree with the double standard thing the poster above said. Lauren dated Jason Wahler the scumbag of the earth!! How dare she call Justin disgusting. I mean seriously! Jason was in rehab at 16 for the 2nd time. The dude is racist and been arrested multiple times for public intoxication, using racial slurs and for physical assault. He has spent time in jail. He just settled two civil lawsuits due to his f*cked up behavior towards others. Oh and he continually lied to Lauren, cheated on her in public and was banned from her complex for threatening and being violent towards her. And let's not forget she took him back multiple times for two plus years. And yet she calls Justin disgusting because she thinks he needs a bath? yeah whatever Lauren!


with friends like lauren you don't need enemies. seriously sweetie she is not your friend. how many times has she sat idly by while lo has slagged you off? how many times has she talked crap behind your back? how many times has she given you sh*t about justin when she's done the exact same thing w/ jason? lauren lets guys walk all over her and yet she acts like some great authority! you can do much better in he friends dept, stick w/ casey and people you know from your real life. lauren has never had your best interest as heart!


ignore the haters gf!
you are beautiful and have a trillion and one things going for you.
you did nothing wrong.
i am 100% team you and i am tired of lauren always turning things around to be about her.
you are the only real person on that show.
and where does lauren get off calling justin disgusting?
she dated that racist jason who was a coke whore and cheater
and stephen was also a liar and a cheater and ugly as sin
and oh yeah she chased brody all over lala land too.


When your best friend said she did not do anything, you should trust her. I do not know what everyone else was watching, but you definately asked her more than once. And then your callling stephanie a liar..she said she received a text from you...and heidi...she should know better to confide in her. Heidi might not run her mouth but Spencer sure does!

You probably stopped reading this by now..but open your eyes...If it wasnt for lauren youwouldnt be were you are now. The hills made you famous. You probably came up with rumor to get more attention on tv.


Personally, I have never liked how Lauren has treated you. From day 1 when she needed you during the Heidi mess you were always there for her. And yet Lauren had no problem making fun of you and Justin with Lo whenever you werren't around. You were even kind enough to go to Jason's housewarming and you never once turned around and judged lauren about that situation. Instead you were warm and supportive and in return you only got dissed more and more behind your back and then when Lo was done with school you were dropped like a hot potato and not even told they were looking at hoses together till after the fact! Lauren can think she's a good friend all she wants but i don't believe it. And neither should you...


ps
for the poster above
lauren didn't make anyone famous. the hills is an ensemble cast. and quite frankly the show didn't get popular till the whole sex tape rumour so does that mean we should thank heidi & spencer too?also audrina was cast for the show. so we can all thank adam divello for that. thanks adam!!


I Love you Audrina. Don't let the haters get you down. You had every right to question Lauren and I think she was totally wrong in how she handled things with you. I think she treats you like a third class citizen most of the time with all her eye rolling and dismissive comments.


Hey Audrina Why Are You Deleting The Comments?
Some of the comments were really good advice for you and ur shady ways uve had lately and good point of views on how you are WRONG and worse then HEIDI :D !!!


Has anyone thought that we really don't know how Lauren or Audrina or anyone else is for that matter in REAL life? We are just watching them on TV people! How can you all judge their actions based on 20 minutes of TV? What the crap! Stop posting mindless hate!


Okay I agree that was a nasty rumor an you had every right to ask about it!!! cause i would have but from what i see lauren is a great friend an always gives her oppinion no matter how strong it may be, she's lookin out for her friends. But if you really care about her as a friend you should have trusted her. An i might have been offended to if i was in laurens position. That's just like her asking you if you slept with Jason. but I hope you guys will make it thru this. Ya'll were really good friends, An friends have to argue sometime!!! It helps you in the long run from personal experience!!


Has anyone thought that we really don't know how Lauren or Audrina or anyone else is for that matter in REAL life? We are just watching them on TV people! How can you all judge their actions based on 20 minutes of TV? What the crap! Stop posting mindless hate!


Audrina...I think you are great...big fan... But I have to agree with what a lot of people are saying here...you are playing a victim on so many levels...and you aren't even recognizing your part in this whole situation. You said you didn't go around town talking about it...but you did...you blogged about it and went on ELLEN!! You went on national tv. You admitted to nasty voice mails left for Justin and now are acting like Lauren and Justin were crazy to not want to talk to you...why would they want to talk to someone who is a) accusing them of something and b) handling it with such anger? I don't blame you, if I had heard the same rumor, I would have flown off the handle...no question...but you continued to push and push and push and ask and ask and ask and doubt and doubt and doubt...so how could they not go crazy and get so upset? I can't blame them either and probably would have behaved the same way. I mean, it's been WEEKS and you chose to mention it AGAIN here today... I think it's sad that you are writing Lauren off as a friend...I understand why people criticize her at times, but from what we have seen, she has been there for you...through a lot and was hurt because you didn't appreciate that friendship enough by trusting her. I wish that was easier for you to see so you wouldn't lose a friendship that has clearly meant a lot to you in the past and has carried you through other tough times. I hope things continue to look up for you and you can put all of this behind you soon...


F Lauren!!!
Team Audrina!!!


here's what i don't get. lauren has admitted she doesn't trust her own friends. so how can she not understand audrina asking her a simple question. i don't care what anyone thinks, if you hear a rumour that involves you and your friend, even if you love and trust your friend you are going to ask her or him about it just to "clear the air". and lets not forget the first thing lauren did when audrina asked her about the rumourwas to hang up the phone without addressing it. then she laughed in audrina's face when audrina came over to talk about it. c'mon who does that? Lauren showed Audrina zero respect. AND she called Justin disgusting right to audrina's face. I'm sorry but you don't do that. you just don't. lauren has dated many a disgusting guy in her day (ahem jason & stephen) and audrina has never once ripped them apart in the same way lauren carries on about Justin. Truly i don't get it but i do know i wouldn't want to be friends with someone as judgemental as lauren is. PS Audrina, you have nothing to be sorry for. I would have confronted Lauren too!


hello, personally i love all of you lot, but i have been in that situation where it has been true so i know what your going through but if lauren was your best friend and you know she has never ever been attracted to him then you should of just trusted her i mean if my best friend has asked me 40 times if i kissed her boyfriend i would be mad aswell! buh its all good cause youve made up now right soooo:) buh as for justin i think you need to realise who you truely are before you can be with him or anyone. just be happy x


team audrina
i don't think you acted like a child at all
i wuld be pissed if i were you too
lauren & lo do nothing but talk smack about you when you are not around and how many times is lauren going to say "i have nothing in common w/ audrina" or" i don't see how we can be friends again!!" honestly let the door smack her in her fat ass on the way out. you don't need a friend who talks that much smack about you. also you never once judged laurenr for all her bad dating descisions and all she has done is repeatedly judged you and justin. how is that fair or right? lauren seems to have one set of rules for herself and a completely different set of rules for her friends. i hope you don't continue to hang out with people like lauren lo 7 brody because none of them has your back. they will continue to put you down and stir sh*t up and girl you deserve soooooooooooo much better. love and hugs to you!!!!!


please ignore all the crap people are spewing
i think you are the only real one on that show and for sure the only person i'd want by my side in real life. keep on keeping on!


Audrina-I think you were kind of "running your mouth" when this whole thing started. US Magazine had quotes from you talking about the whole thing before it was resolved. You were talking to the press about it before you had really gotten to the bottom of what had happened. You did imply that Justin and Lauren had done this.
I think you now saying that Heidi "knows how Lauren works" is a low blow. Now all of the sudden Lauren is an awful person? You must forget what Heidi did to Lauren. It upsets me to see Lauren be cast as the bad guy here because she just didn't want to dignify the ridiculous rumor with a response.
Do you watch the episodes of the Hills? Lauren hates Justin. She always has. Everyone knows this! It's obvious she thinks he is pretty grotesque. Why on earth would you think she would hook up with him? I understand hearing a rumor and wanting to get to the bottom of it, but you did imply that Lauren betrayed you.
Guess Spencer got what he wanted when he started the rumor....you and Lauren aren't friends and you ran straight to Heidi. Wow, he's good.


Hey Audrina,

I personally think Lauren's starting to be really fake and selfish. She only cares about herself. She doesnt like Justin, so she doesnt want you to like him. She didn't like Spencer, and she didnt want Heidi to like him. She is all about herself. Is she willing to pick her girlfriends over her boyfriend? I doubt it.

TRULY DOUBT IT!


ok here's my whole take on the spencer heidi thing sex tape rumour thing. first of all it was never proven that they started the rumor. i don't care what brody says because i don't trust him any more than i trust spencer. bottom line both guys are total fame/media whores. besides why did lauren care so much about this rumor? rumors die down if you don't respond to them. me thinks the girl protested way too much for there not to have been some kernel of truth to it. but really that's besides the point. the thing is lauren wants to control all of her friends. if they are dating a guy that she doesn't like they should dump said guy. wtf? what kind of friend asks that of you. now i don't like spencer at all but if my friend loved him, well as long as he made her happy wha do i care. why does lauren seems to think she can dictate what's acceptable in her friends lives, for example saying heidi needs to ditch spencer before they can talk again. and what is up with lauren saying that justin is disgusting and dirty and constantly making fun of him to audrinas face and behind her back. what kind of friend does that? i would never want to be lauren's friend, there are too many rules and frabkly it sounds like way too much work!


2 points:
1)yes you did run your mouth over town...you ran it over WORLD actually when you went on the ellen degeneres show and talked about it
2)you should have let justin bobby PERMANENTLY go the first time he did something wrong...not doing so just sends him the message that he has you wrapped around his finger and he can keep doing whatever he wants...and if you really did "love" him you wouldn't have believed for a second he did that with lauren...but obviously you guys do not have a true loving relationship

now these two points would normally make me lose respect for you, but i realize that the hills is scripted and not real. you going on ellen generates good publicity and your supposed rocky relationship with justin bobby makes for interesting storylines........so knowing this you are still my fave person on the show:)


some of the people who comment here are so f'ed up. Audrina never ran her mouth, she talked and texted people who are supposed to be her friends. Audrina trusted stephanie and heidi and brody etc. call her naive for trusting people but how is that running her mouth by simply talking to people in their same circle? mind you i think we've all learned that nobody has audrina's back except audrina and casey. we've now heard brody and frankie each say 2 or 3 times "drop the girl' and even lauren herself doesn't seem remotely interested in being audrina's friend. honestly i think it's their loss. audrina is the bomb and she's the only real deal on that show. if you're reading this audrina, let them talk their crap gf, ignore the haters and the would be friends and keep being yourself. you have a lot of fans and people who know what the real story is!


Audrina,

I don't know if you read these responses. However, you did nothing wrong. You were faced with a very difficult situation. I am sure once you heard the rumor you had that awful feeling in the pit of your stomach and you needed to the know the truth. You had every right to ask both Lauren and Justin whether it was true.

Lauren should have been there for you and assured you she did not do anything. As a true friend she should have felt your pain. When I saw you cry my first response was that Lauren should have got up and hugged you or at least acknowledge that you were in a tough spot and when faced with the exact same situation she would have done the same thing.

She is offended that you didn't trust her but she shouldn't be.. after all she once had a friend who did the same thing to her.. so she knows that these things do happen even with people you trust.

As for Justin. I believe he does care about you. But, he cannot give you what you want or deserve. You need someone who will express their feelings for you and not do anything to risk losing you as a girlfriend and especially as a friend. I believe once you close the door on Justin the right one will come to you.

Justin is not a bad guy, he is just confused as to what he truly wants. He doesn't want to lose you but he is afraid to keep you. You don't need that.

I hope you find a true friend.. one who is truly happy for your success and when you find someone to love ..


Although I and many people can identify with being in such a shady situation that you were put in, where emotions run high and you feel completely betrayed, aren't you worried that this blog will seem like you're attacking Lauren yet again? By saying that you 'weren't running your mouth' when so many people heard about it and everyone has seen blogs and statements you sent out to the world acknowledging this subject. Lauren interpreted it that way perhaps because that's something a real friend wouldn't do and she wanted the respect to know that you thought of her as a true friend.

You definitely deserved and explanation and a genuine one at that. I don't think either Justin or Lauren understood how hurtful what you were told could be. But in the same aspect, you overreacted and assumed before taking time to be rational. And telling the exact person you KNOW would badmouth Lauren all around town was kind of lame. Heidi of all people, really. Because she knows how she "operates" seems like quite an insult.


oh, and also, telling people that not communicating your problems with other people is a really stupid thing to say to anyone. good luck bottling up all your feelings and never being truly happy.


Hi Audrina! I'm a big fan of The Hills so of course I saw what went down on last week's episode. I totally get why Lauren reacted the way she did to what you said because you should've known she wouldn't do ya dirty like that. But I also understand why you were so hurt. Whether a rumor being spread is true or not, that kind of rumor hurts to hear. I am one who has a bit of a trust issue. I do trust people just not 100%. I'm glad you and Lauren made up! This week's episode made me cry! I hope you and Lauren continue to be friends.


I am 150% on your side. Of course you had to ask if the rumour was true. Why couldn't Lauren just say "No, I'm sorry someone said something so hurtful to you but please know in a hundred years I would never betray you." Why did she give you such a hard time and offer no sympathy. I'm sorry but that's not a friend I'd want to have. And if I were you, I would be so pissed about all the things she said about Jusin. I'm sure you haven't liked all the guys Lauren has hooked up with but you seem matue enough to not go spouting off about them. Please stay strong and keep your good friends close and people like Lauren at arm's length. She is not the kind of friend you need.


You, Audrina, was the one acting like a child, not Lauren. Lauren is very mature and a good friend. You’re not a true friend - because a true friend does not treat or accuse the way you did to her. Also, a good friend does not confide to someone’s enemy. You and Heidi are “the same.”


audrina i dont mean to be rude but i think the way you approached the situation was the problem i would have reacted the same way that lauren did if my best friend accused me without asking. you act like you've been completely innocent in this whole thing an yet you blog and pretty much say that you still believe it and blame everything on her. confiding in heidi was absolutely ridiculous "she knows how lauren works" uh they havent been friends for like 2years people change heidi has no idea wat lauren is like you know more than she does. as far as im concerned the day you became friends with heidi again is the day that lauren stopped trusting you and u confiding in heidi just proves that she was right. heidi was the wrong person to tell because as soon as she found out the whole world did. but good luck with everything i just hope you dont think that heidi will be a better friend than lauren.


i see both sides, i see why lauren would be upset, EVERYONE thinks its an outrageous rumor that you should have just dismissed, even just asking about it to lauren could be hurtful to a best friend, how would you feel if she jumped to conclusions about some rumor about you? wouldn't you hope that she knows better and not get upset about it or believe it? in a way, when you ask someone something like that, you are sort of accusing them, you are asking them for a reason, because you think it could be true, so if you read between the lines it is a form of accusing.
i see your side too though, you were just being cautious, its really hard to find a good true friend that will really be there for you. but i don't think that lauren meant you specifically called her all those names, i think she meant you were implying that of her. plus, lauren did mention how she told you once it wasn't true, and you chose to keep throwing it in HER face asking her multiple times.
as far as justin, it just seems like he's above all the drama, so why would he even waste his time getting wrapped up in it, you know? it really does seem out of character for you to believe something like that.
it just sucks how all this drama is turning out, it seems now like you all are just friends to make a good drama-filled show, but you secretly all hate each other. it just seems so far fetched and fake anymore. especially now that you made this blog with the note that you don't feel like you should have apologized and you learned a valuable lesson, you make it sound like lauren treats you bad as a friend and you dont want to be her friend anymore.
maybe just try to see where each other is coming from, and there will be a better understanding on both parts. its so much better when you guys are friends.


I agree with everything Katie said in her comment on December 2, 2008 9:18 AM.

Audrina,
You need to realize that you accused Lauren of things she would never do (especially from what we've seen), and need to sincerely apologize for it.

I thought Lauren handled the situation rather well. She kept telling you and telling you that she didn't do it, but you never believed her. If I was Lauren, I don't think I would have accepted you back into my life so easily.


But on the show, Stephanie said you text her. Is that a lie?


How could you go on Ellen and spread your lie (which I KNOW you completely made up yourself!) to the world??? Stop trying to tear LC down in an attempt to make yourself look better... it's NOT working!!


i'm on your side. I have never seen you be anything but a great friend to lauren and all i see you get in return is her laughing at you behind your back with lo or making faces or talking shit about justin or you being with justin. You have never once judged lauren about anything whether it was not going to paris or pining for violent racist ex jason or pathetically chasing brody and stephen. i truly don't get how you're the bad friend when all you were asking for was some sympathy and an honest no. Lauren laughing in your face didn't help matters. When did she become such a heartless bitch? i switched over to team audrina the very day lo and lauren coined justin, justin bobby. they had no reason to be mean to him or to you that day but clearly they get their kicks out of knocking you around. stay the sweet girl you are. your fans appreciate you for who you are and know what;s up.


team audrina
your gorgeous and real and lauren has been nothing short of a bitch to you since lo came back on the scene. f lauren and her double standards.


wow so many haters. those die hard lauren fans hate to hear anyone talk badly about their precious dear lol it's funny because lauren has done a 180 since the laguna days or maybe she just hid her true self better because all i see lately is a spoiled bitter mean girl who sits in judgement of everyone around her and turns every situation back to herself. talk about self centered. im team audrina cuz you keep it real and speak your mind. xxx


I was just going to mention about that Ellen show. You said on the show you havent heard off her. Yet on the show, you and Lauren said that you spoke that night. Then you saw each other soon after that.
Also you just wrote that you only told Heidi. But on the show stephanie and Brody both said that they had messages from you. So are they lying too? Im guessing you only spoke to heid because she was the only one ho ould listen to such a crazy rumour. Even your sister sed you should say sorry.

I think you showed your true colours. Which is a shame, bcos I thought you were cool before.


A is for awesome
U is for unbelievably
D is for drop dead gorgeous
R is for real
I is for intriguing
N is for nice
A is for amazing

love you girl!


Why are you deleting comments?
Not everyone has to agree with you...
I'll post again and find it interesting that you are deleting comments that are not inappropriate.

I wanted to say that it was water under the bridge and you shouldn't have brought it up again. You can't believe everything you hear. Especially, in Hollywood. Your friends told you "no" it didn't happen and you kept pressing it. We saw the video and the Ellen interview. Apologize for reacting on emotions rather than logic and I'm sure your friends will think you are a bigger person for doing so.

Some advice I'm sure will be deleted by tomorrow. If you want to have a blog where you express your opinion you shouldn't expect everyone to have the same.


Well said


audrina you will always be cool in my book. lauren has treated you like garbage this whole past year and a half. i'm not sure i would have trusted her either. in fact it seems like she sets you up a lot of times. like in cabo. didn't you find it "funny" that all of a sudden frankie and brody HAVE to invite justin and then frankie just had to run his mouth yet again yapping about you an corey. honestly they all seem like middle school kids who have too much money and free time so they get their kicks stirring up stuff just for shits and giggles. ps
i wouldn't trust any of them either. xoxo


team audrina!


You were so wrong to do what you did. You're the one who acted like a complete child. You asked for a answer from them..YOU GOT ONE...a million times you asked. Lauren has never shown intrest in Justin Bobby. As I recall she was always there for you when HE hurt YOU! Why would she want someone like that? Grow up!


ignore anyone hating on ya, they're not worthy of your time. i see how lauren is and how your situation became all about her. what crap. i would stick to your family and your friends from real life. lauren is not someone you can count on and she will never stop putting you down. i think it's time to let the friendship go...you deserve better.


I could understand getting upset about the rumor but to just automatically assume it was true was so wrong. Lauren puts out to be the truest friend and you don't even give her a chance you just beleive the rumor..pretty shady..I can understand not trusting Justin because of all the things he has done to you and I'm pretty sure we don't even know the half of it but to turn against Lauren was wrong. You asked her and she gave you her answer but then you still asked her again..WTF. The sad thing 2 it is you were going to ruin your friendship with Lauren but would have taken Justin Bobby back..What a friend you are..You appreciate someone so much better than him..MOVE ON yeah its hard but you would be so much happier..Chicks before Dicks..


You are no innocent in this. You used it on talk shows, on your blog. Guess you think any publicity is good publicity. I don't know if you have some victim fantasy or what, but you are not the victim in this because there was no crime against you. You heard a rumor and chose to believe the worst of your best friend and your boyfriend. You repeatedly confronted them over it and questioned their integrity. You embarrassed them in the press by publicizing it. You called or texted all Lauren's friends to make sure everyone knew.
Now, you are still trying to get publicity, and from your comments, you are still being insulting to Lauren. Some people never learn.


I think your reaction was wright. I would of bene freaked out to if I heard something like that. But you in your bloq you are still blaming justin and lauren for not talking to you. As a matter of fact I would not talk to you either if i was accused of something like that and i didn't do it. I understand Lauren for reaction the way she did. I would of felt betrayed two if my friend even think i did something like that. So it comes down to the thing i understand both sides, but when Lauren en Justin said to you it didn't happen you should stop and not go further with the whole blame trip. that's really a way to distroy a friendship.
But i still think you're cool =).


dear audrina,

ive been watching the hills and i really really think that what you did was wrong and i feel like i really have to say something becasue its just annoying.

you DID tell everyone. i watched the ellen degeneres show and you were TELLING every single person there that lauren and justin hooked up, so stop saying the only person you told was heidi.

and how can lauren explain? she said no countless times, so did justin bobby.
and u chose to trust a random rumour instead of the people youre closest to?
obviously you have to apologize

i think the least you could do is admit your mistake and not be sarcastic about it and continue to victimize yourself
its so sad that u put urself in this position where u always make urself the victim. youve to learn to be less self-centered and actually think about the impact on others.
put urself in lauren's shoes and imagine her accusing you. go think about it and stop wallowing in self-pity.

take care

regards
B


I love how you deleted 200 posts that aren't positive or Team Audrina. You've lost a lot of fans over this childish behavior of yours. Running to your blog and putting down Lauren is PATHETIC. CEILING EYES I hope you FAIL in LIFE.


i understand completely you being in shock and frustration from this rumor that probably broke your heart. however, in life you learn which friends you can trust around your boyfriend and ones you probably wont. i know i can relate, not all friends are so "virginal" with that being said, you wholeheartedly believing this INSANE rumor without confronting Justin or Lauren first shows how naive you are. if i heard my best friend hooked up with my bf, i would take it into consideration and confront both of them but NOT jump to conclusions automatically based on heresay! people love to start drama for the sake of drama, couldn't you see through that? you let your mistrust of justin effect your view of lauren. how would you feel if lauren did that to you? automatically believing you hooked up with her bf? not fair, right? i am a fan of both of you & lauren and can both deem you girls very "selective" and smart, not ones to jump in the bed with just some guy. so why persecute both of them off the bat? not cool. and you acting like the victim in all this is appalling. justin & lauren are the victims. if you had just kept this between you three, not retelling the story to people who weren't involved, putting dirt on all your names further fueling the fire, and confronted both questioning and not ACCUSING, no drama would have been started. you definetly handled this "childishly" as you accused lauren, and she was definitely giving you a taste of your own medicine. tastes horrible, right? you certainly have trust issues but need to check yourself before you end up alone. because i have lost friends over stupid rumors they started or heard, and am glad to no longer have them in my life. that's so high school stupid! who needs that? you are very lucky lauren has a bugger heart and doesn't share my philosophy.


Hang in there girl.


Actually I think you were acting like a child. Lauren was upset that you did not believe her. You need to grow up, you act like your so much more mature then Lauren then why don't you act like it. And you did run around calling Lauren's friends and telling all of them don't try to act innocent!!!!!


Deleting comments will not change the way the majority of the people feel. You were in the wrong. Every time you blog you add more lies. You now call Justin your boyfriend when in your original blog you state 'although Justin and I have not been exclusive for some time'. Did you forget about the Ellen Show? I mean really, you are the first person to go on a show and talk about a rumor! You really need to get over you jealousy of Lauren. I really don't get your attitude towards her. She has always been a friend. When Ryan Seacrest was making fun of your nude pictures on the radio she told him to stop. When Jimmy Kimmel was making fun of how your eyes are always looking up she told him to be nice. That is a true friend. Instead of bashing Lauren you need to remember the only reason you have your $1.2 million house, Mercedes and fake boobs is because she agreed to do the hills. You really should seek professional help about your mental state. Otherwise you may end up in the loony hospital.


You probably went to Heidi because you know she's the only person that would take your side and bad mouth Lauren. Get over it!


You seem to believe you are the star of The Hills. Here is a quote from Adam Divello: 'So why choose Conrad for this show? "I think she proved that she is 'every girl,' " DiVello says. "She really does wear her emotions on her sleeve. She has ambition — not to just go off and be a celebrity. She wants to be a designer. She has a goal and a dream that we can actually follow along with. She seemed like the perfect candidate." Get over yourself and deal with your jealousy of Lauren. The Hills was created for Lauren and Lauren is the star. Instead of bashing Lauren you need to thank her for allowing you on the show! Without her no one would know you.


I have to agree with several comments on here...you are trying to turn this around that you are the victim. Yes, it was a vicious rumor, but you ran accusing LC and JB, not asking. I think this was a publicity stunt for you and it failed miserably. Just you "confiding" in Heidi (of course the paparazzi shot that) just proves it even more. Your apology seems very insincere now and I hope you evaluate your ways. LC has made some mistakes (I'm sure) but she has tried to be there for you as much as possible, even when you were not trying. Your behavior was more immature then anyone. And maybe you need to cut JB out of your life considering how many times he has mistreated you. Good luck in REAL life...I think you're going to need it.


I think you handled the situation wrong....I would have hung up on you 2.....You asked her like 10 times so how many times did you want her to say no she didn't do that. I just felt like you started the rumor. The first I heard about it was on your blog and then I started hearing it else where. I do beleive you tend to play the victim card.... Do you ever take any of the blame. You know that if the situation was turned and u were accused of messing with Jason, you would be pissed off that she accused you of it and made it public knowledge....I just wish you would say you were wrong....I really used to like you and now me and my friends usually fastforward the parts your in.


So disappointed. I know you're feelings were hurt at just the mere thought of your friend and Justin hooking up. But it seems that you are not taking responsibility in this...none of this would have even happened if you wouldn't have believed the rumor. You said that Lauren denied it and then hung up on you. She told you it wasn't true - - that should have been enough. I would have hung up to, if I felt accused by a good friend. It's ok to make mistakes, but you have to be willing to learn from them.


OMG!!!
WILL YOU ALL STOP ACTING LIKE IDIOTS!!

YOU'S DONT KNOW AUDRINA OR ANY OF THE CAST!!!
SO STOP TELLING HER SHES A CHILD OR THAT SHES TREATING LAUREN BAD, SHE PROBLY DOESNT EVEN CARE WHAT YOU THINK

ITS EXACTLY LIKE A COMPLETE DIVE OF STRANGER LEAVING COMMENTS ON YOUR PAGES TELLING YOU UR IN THE WRONG IN A FITE THEY HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SO STOP ALL ACTING LIKE SUPER STALKERS....FOR REAL!


Fuck these negative bitches! Out of all of the girls on that show you and that girl thats getting her own show are the most genuine. I kind of wish it was you getting your own show, but i think youve had enough of all this "reality". Anywho just move on and know that Lauren is shady and not to be trusted. I used to like her, but now you can see right through her and how she likes to use the cameras to her advantage. I mean you could totally tell she was forcing herself to cry in the episode before last night. Just stay true to yourself.
-love, from tx


TEAM AUDRINA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If she wants to delete comments thats her shit! After all this is her page! DUH!! SO FUCK OFF!!!!!! TEAM AUDRINA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


It's not about picking sides like everyone here seems to think. This was something that came up and I agree that you (Audrina) had every right to ask, but watching the show you asked way more times than you needed to and you implied lauren was lying by not trusting her when she first said no. I guarantee you if you would have approached it in a different way that you would've gotten your explanation. Everyone makes mistakes, and I don't think Lauren turned her back on you, I don't think she could believe you were actually asking her the way you were, that accusation for her came out of nowhere. Whatever you said to Justin Bobby and how you handled it with him is different, he has given you every right not to trust him and he should have definitely given you an explanation. Theres just different ways to approach people and situations and if someone has been your friend for a long time theres better ways to approach them rather than just straight out asking the question over and over. I agree with you trying to get the information just not the way you tried. You were wrong and its not fair you right a blog about them turning their backs on you when you initially opened the doors for them to feel the way they felt. Either way things will get fixed one way or another. Good Luck and your great!!!
xoxo niki


I think you are a great person, but I don't think you have put this behind you. It is obvious that you have trust issues, but if you can't trust you "best friend" who can you trust. I am gladd that you are being "mature" about the situation, but I also feel that the apology WAS necessary. You never turn on your girl friends, they are the ones who will be with you until the end...and Lauren understands this.


Hi ! Audrina is that really you ?
well caus i usually found page that people
who play to be like you or lauren , well , i hope this is not the case , i was reading usmagazine and well i decided enter , and here i am .


Audrina... you need to grow up! You need to admit that you were wrong to question Lauren and be genuine about an apology. You know how strongly Lauren DOES NOT like Justin and you should've known better than to even THINK that rumor could possibly be true. Lauren did not turn her back on you (although she should because with friends like you-who needs enemies)? She simply had to seperate herself from the situation. I think it's time for you to take some responsibility and stop playing the victim!


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