Helen,
You're at an age where it's completely natural to not be comfortable with yourself or confident, so don't let it bother you. It's supposed to feel that way. I wasn't comfortable with who I was when I was fifteen either. I don't think anyone is!
You just have to be true to yourself and know that these are the years that you're going to look back on and laugh about the silly things you stressed over. Have fun and don't try to grow up too fast! You'll grow into your own skin eventually. :)
Heya. I'm 15 and am not very confident around many people. Do you have any tips on how to be more confident and feel more comfortable with yourself? Thanks.
Helen
Looking for some advice? Leave it in the comments and I might answer it in a future post!
You're at an age where it's completely natural to not be comfortable with yourself or confident, so don't let it bother you. It's supposed to feel that way. I wasn't comfortable with who I was when I was fifteen either. I don't think anyone is!
You just have to be true to yourself and know that these are the years that you're going to look back on and laugh about the silly things you stressed over. Have fun and don't try to grow up too fast! You'll grow into your own skin eventually. :)
~~~
Heya. I'm 15 and am not very confident around many people. Do you have any tips on how to be more confident and feel more comfortable with yourself? Thanks.
Helen
Looking for some advice? Leave it in the comments and I might answer it in a future post!















COME ON NOW YOUR GIVING ADVICE WHEN YOU GOT NAKED RIGHT OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL LMAOOOOOOOOOOO
PLEASE AAAAAAUDRNA WANNA BE LIKE LAUREN BUT U CANT WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS STARRING UP ????????
BUT I HOPE YOU HAVE A GOOD TIME NOW YOUR HOUSE LOOKS TITE ATLEAST U GOT SOMETHING OUT OF THE HILLS MAYBE YOU SHOULD POSE FOR PLAYBOY NEXT HHMMM
Gina
your obviously not a Audrina fan but people on this site are and must want her opinion and point of view or they wouldn't ask for it.
So thats said why are you such a sad person that you have nothing better to do that lurk on someone you dont like site and leave horrible comments about them. I dont understand, if you dont like her why come on her site to see what she is up to?????? I just find that a bit weird
Its actually quite sad you should really find something more productive to do with your time. Go get a hobby or a life.
and so what if she did pose nude or get naked or whatever (I haven't heard this story) we dont live in the 1920's. Its hardly a shocker and im pretty sure if you were made the right offer you probably would do it too. Infact i bet i can put my life on the fact that you have done something worse than this.
Just chill chick and if you don't like someone thats ok you dont need to see what they are up to or have anything to do with them.
I love your advice Audrina.
I'm 15 at the moment, and yea it's so true, like if you go round asking your mates if they are generally happy with who they are at the moment, most of them will say no.
So yeah.
You're so awesome Audrina! Muchlove xx
Hey Helen,
I get how you feel. I'm 17 and used to have really big confidence issues. You need to know that you're a really really beautiful person. Try this: before you look in a mirror, say to yourself "I'm beautiful, I'm strong, I'm me" and when you look in the mirror, you'll feel a whole lot better. Do little things for yourself to show you appreciate you. As weird as that sounds, it works. Try little things, like holding your head high up and keeping your eyes forward when you walk through the hallway at school or smiling at people more often. You need to appreciate you and know that if you accept yourself, others will, too.
I read in a magazine that you are going to be in Pittsburgh filming a horror movie with Rumer Willis. I live in Pittsburgh and would love to come see the filming. When will that be? Can you give me any info??
Thanks,
Jamie :)
Audrina there is a dress that you are wearing in the in touch mag.Oct 6th issue that i love. Can you tell me wear you purchased the dress. Ive got to have it!
Heather agian the dress is on page 4 of the in touch mag. oct 6 vol 7 issue 40 thanks
Hey!
about Gina comment : why to be so rude and mean!!!! you don't like Audrina but it is not a reason to leave some comments like this. not only you're pathetic but you're also except context!!!
Anyways, Heather don't worried! Live your life and don't ask you too many questions. you will win more growing up.
take care
Teli
Dear Audrina,
I Gotta say every time I've seen you on the hills you always look so put together. I Love how you do your make up. How do you do it? It always looks so flawless and well blended but it never looks like too much.
<3 Eva
Good advice audrina! always the best!
and for gina: if u don't like audrina then go away....
hey audrina!
i love your blog :]
here's my question or should i say dilemma:
well i'm 19 years old and i still get shy around my crushes and i tend not to talk around them(or to them for that matter) and lack eye contact. what do you think i should do to get over my fear?
thanks girl!
<333
if you really want to feel better about yourself, get some fake breasts and don't be afraid to show them off to anyone anywhere.
Debbie
Gina does have a life, talking crap about someone she doesn't know... How sad.
I would hug u if I knew u Gina :)
Hi audrina i saw pictures of you and your sis on tmz..you guys were at a pool..anyways i was just wonderin where you got your sunglasses or what brand they are. There so cute! please let me know! Thanks!
Im not giving her crap its just a bit of advice. Its like if you dont like mayo, why would you eat it???? if she doesnt like Audrina why come on her site???
Im sorry if i came accross horrible. i just dont see any point to what she did and i just think she could be spending her her time more productivly that being negative about people she doesn't know but obviously doesnt like...................but then who am i to tell anyone what to do????
Sorry if I hurt your feelings Gina
Debs
xx
umm seriously, why is anyone sticking up for Gina! this is obvs audrina's blog so why come here and take the time to leave a comment and only attack her. that was her decision to take the photos not yours Gina so get a fucking life.It's sad that ppl waste so much time. go talk ur shit on Tmz trick
AUDRINA IS SOOO HOTT!!!!!!! :)
Hey Audrina, Your my favorite on the show. I think your so perfect & I love your look! Buttt i have one question. It says on ur personal info that you were picked to be on tha hills by a producer! Thats messed up. So you didn't even know lo or Lc. Is it scripted? You are an actress. I was iffy about it being fake at first but now i think i know for sure. Welp i still think ur amazing=)
Jess
hey i just want to say u r one of my favorites on the show,its so kool how i can have a show were i can relait to so much,now 4 my question what is it like being on a reality show has it changed your life much at all?
any way u r awesome!!
to the jess above that sed "i still think ur amazing"
how she got asked to be on the hills is because Heidi was sitting with her aside the pool and they just met cuz Heidi wanted to make new friends becasue lc and
her moved and thats how she first got on the hills and no its not scripted its all real so yeh i hope that helps lol :)
Audrina has a show it's called THE HILLS. Do you think that show would be anything without the BIG supporting cast around LC. LC is so nothing. Plain as can be. AND for all you loser haters stop coming to Audrina's website if you are not a fan. Go get a job. Audrina is a super star. I'm wearing you jeans right nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. I'm buying a new pair this weekend.
Audrina,
oh Audrina, If only i lived in LA. But alas i'm a lonely Canadian boy waiting for you to warm up my nights.
Come to Montreal! :)
Audrina,
i notice that your confident in your body alot. i'm 15 and i don't have any confidence in the way my body is. i'm a petite girl and weigh 112 and i still don't have any confidence. any advice please help.
Love,
Cortney
What helps with me, I just listen to ALOT of music and it kinda helps me find myself It's kinda weird but it helps..
Hey Audrina,
I've been reading around and I just don't see how and why Lauren would hook up with Justin.
Especially after what she has been through with Heidi and most recently Stephanie.
I think she has more respect for you then that and of course I do not know either of you but she genuinely seems like she considers you a good friend.
So my advise to you, do not listen to the gossip just listen to your friend. Boyfriends come and go, but friends last forever.
Good luck and I hope everything works itself out.
i need an advice, i have been on and off with this guy i know, i already decide to forget about him, but he keeps looking for me and telling me that he always remember me , i really REALLY want to get over him, but he wouldn't let me do it, what can i do?, and its even worst because he goes to the same school as i, please give me an advice.
P.S: i think that you shouldn't believe in all that gossip about you, Lauren and Justin Bobby, think very well things and then make a decition
a huge hug
gaby
i wish to get into the business side of the music industry, kind of like how u are with Epic, any suggestions or helpful hints?
Matthew, xx
Audrina, Lauren is your friend, and you know how much she doesn't like Justin. How could you not stand by her and stick up for her... I love you and I know that when people talk its hard not to get sucked in, but come on... What does your heart tell you.. I mean Lauren and Justin... I couldn't even picture that...Sorry girl... I hope everything gets worked out
Email me whenever I am always here for you...
Hey Audrina-
Honestly I can't say that I have ever seen the Hills, just a few clips here and there, but I saw your blog online and would say don't believe what you read or hear in all the magazines and gossip. They just make up stuff to make gossip. You are gorgeous so don't let those paparazzi get to you. <3, Christina
Hey Audrina! I'm a big fan but I gotta say that I'm very disappointed that you actually believe the Justin/Lauren rumors. :(
Audrina!!!
You rock!!!
u r very pretty & Fashion!!!
Te queremos mucho mucho desde El Salvador..!!
Tu show es bastante visto aca en el pais y me encantaria algún dia conocerte pues aqui tienes un club de fans !!!!
Se te quiere muchisimoooooo..!!
Bye Bye
xoxo
f. Majo
Audrina, lauren is your best friend.
dont beleive them rumours.
anything perez says is crap anyway.
i hope everything works out
xxx
dang you have a lot of people that
has a lot of nasty things to say
about you or claim to say they
dislike you yet they waste their
time to check out your site. lol.
anywho, i think you're great and
i wouldn't believe the rumors.
i don't know either of you two
personally but you and her have
a great friendship (from what i
see) and she wouldn't betray you.
why would she or anyone?
you're an amazing friend.
anyways, keep your head up cause
there's obviously people that want
to put you down but i know and
everyone knows they don't stand a
chance. stay strong and i hope
things work out for you!
dear gina: how old are you? if you're younger than helen, get lost, sissy. if you're older than helen, show off your face and tell audrina in person. if you're older than audrina, please act your own age.
Girl, open your eyes. SPENCER started these rumors and if Justin said its true, he is lying, its because he doesn't like Lauren. Lauren knows the "girlfriend code", just look how she reacted to Steph and Doug. She would not do that to you, don't let other people ruin your friendship. You know they are lies and if you don't believe Lauren then she is better off with out you.
Audrina,
For whats its worth, I hung out with Justin briefly on Wednesday night in San Diego at Typhoons. Even though he had plenty of opportunity with random hot girls he did nothing about it and acted like a guy in an exclusive relationship. He seemed like a great guy, much better in person than they portray him on the show.
I can see why you like him, I think the other girls are just jealous and want to monkeywrench your relationship. I know you are too smart for that...
Take Care!
Joe
Audrina..
I was wondering how you get the poof on the back of your hair. I have tried everything from volumising foam, and moose to get my hair to do it like yours. I can get it at first, I use hairspray but then it flattens out during the day. What do I do?
You are better than believing those rumors! I'm sure it's nothing LC would do anyway... Justin isn't her type. Plus, I heard her say that even though you've moved out you're still close. Of course, I don't know the true story but I'm sure she wouldn't do that to you after being so supportive, esp. in the episode where justin kissed another girl (even if it was awhile back). Hope you're ok and best of luck with the situation :) xo
wow the first comment is stupid..whoever left that get a life let her do what she wants!
Hey! just wanted to let you know that your one of my favorites because you always make the situation less drama.. sometimes I'm just like don't make things such a big issue and your like that... you make things make more sense and realistic! You just go with the flow!
Hey Drina...ok so I have a questions. Do you really think LC and Justin Bobbie hooked up?Whats your view on it all? I know you have moved out of LC and Lo's house. Do you like the new house? Are you really starting a new spin off? And are you and Heidi getting closer too? I hope LC and Heidi make up and Heidi dumps Spencer...he's such a loser. anyway ttyl
♥sasha
Hey I really love the show. I have been watching since Lauguna Beach, first season. I love you and all the cast member's besides Spencer. I don't like him at all. But I am very very confused about all these's rumors about Justin and LC. Did they really hook up and are yall not friends anymore? Well I hope you decide to stay on the show:) Lots of Love to ya, Missy♥
Audrina, I ricently started high school and ever since life feels like its been turned upside down. The one girl best friend I had, went to a different school and now has a new best friend already and pretty much replaced me. My best best friend, the only person I really trust and have told everything to, feels like were drifting apart. We used to date and we broke up not even by our own choice it was just friends or his mother sent him to another country to live with his dad. But I cant seem to move on with my life. I dont know weather its because I dont want to, or what. I still love him and part of me always will. Plus all the guys I've met so far in high school all think of me as the really chill freshman. They pretty much took me under their wing and treated me like a little sister, which dont get me wrong im not complaining. But Id like to meet someone soon to help me move on.
So I really have 2 questioins.
What do I do about the girl best friend whos replaced me so easily?
AND
How do I move on from the ex-boyfriend/best friend?
Thanks For Listening,
Kelsey
Hey Audrina! I go to school with your cousin preston was just dropping by to say hey. He talks about you alot =P
Hey Audrina! First off you are beautiful:)
I am 13 and I have problem talking to most
of the girls. I am a typical preppy guy, but
sometimes I just have nothing to talk about with the girls. Maybe I'm just a boring person, but when I am around other guys I have tons of stuff to talk about and I get really talkative, but around girls I am either too shy to say something or just dont know what to talk about. Can you give me an advice?
Hey Audrina! I admire you a lot. I love The Hills, I have all three seasons on dvd, and I love watching the forth season, Im going to buy it when it's on dvd. Anyway, about the rumors, I really want you to know that Lauren would never ever do that to you, she didn't even like Justin in the first place. I hope everything works out for you :). Anyway, Byes :)<3 ttyl
Audrina, i've noticed your so confident with your body, and i wish i could be like that.
Im in 8th grade, i weigh 125 lbs and have huge boobs ha. but i've been getting called fat and stuff alot lately, i haven't really been called ugly or fat ever, and i don't do it to people cuz it's hurtful. Like i get moo'd at whenever i walk by people. my school is full of fake people and they just don't care about themselves. i guess you could say im "in the in crowd" but id rather not be because its so much work. i just need adivice on how to get through all of this.
<3alli.
Audrina,
I think you are the best! I'm currently going through a quarter life crisis when it comes to finding what I want to do with the rest of my life.
What advice can you offer when it comes to starting a kick ass career in the music industry, like yourself?
Thanks!
hey audrina,
i had a question. ummm like if a fan sends u a letter to your guyses house, do u guys actually read it and respond??????
i want to know how u are always so gorgeously tanned. Is it a tanning bed?
Audrina-
I started to watch the Hills b/c I get told that I look like you a lot. I want you to take a look at my myspace and tell me what you think. My 3 latest pics I posted probably give you the best idea of what I look like.
thanks
Hi Audrina,
You are such a gorgeous person inside and out! This site is great and so very YOU..not just something that was created for someone famous-which I do admire.
I don't know if this has already been asked but what hair products do you use? Your hair is so silky and shiny all the time! I have dark hair too, although it is fine and sometimes lacking moisture. Your hair tips would be really beneficial to us if you can spare the time.
Are you still with Corey? The last the media showed us were pictures of you with another male...
Anyway, take care and keep on doing what you do best. Would love to meet you !!
Krissyxoxo
i personally luv u most on da show but thank bout it wud lauren really do that 2 u seeing as 2 its been done 2 her so many times and she knows how it feels cuz of jen bunny and brodya, stephanie and doug, and most of all kristen and steven!! she luvs u guys 2 much 2 hurt u in that way and i kno deep down u kno this 2!! when her and heidi make up which they will den all her drama is over your gonna b standing alone because u didnt trust your friend or sum gossip which 90% of the time is always wrong what r u gonna do??
hey audrina i know this has nothing to do with confidence but i wanted to ask u if u were popular in middle school and in high school.
-elysse
Hi Audrina,
This is totally weird since you dont even know me and I dont even know you. I was wondering maybe you can help me out with some advice here. I feel like Im so trap here working two jobs and school. I dont even have a social life for about 3 years already and I'm only 21. Im working two job because I cant find anything better. I dont understand. a lot of stuff how come people can just discover them and make them famous or how can people just find a good paying job without going through hardship. I dont even sleep because I work two jobs. I only nap for an hr or two. Then I got back to work and den school and den work I get home at 2:30am wake up for work again at 4am get off of work again at 10am and then school and after school go back to work at 7pm and my days just repeats.
heyy its helen,
ive only just seen your reply and it actually made my day that you did reply to it. I will deffinitely try to use that advise.
thanks again and keep up the good work.
helen
hey audrina
how you doing? well i just wanted to say that yur so pretyy my question is there this guy n my class and hes so cute and like i know his ex bt don't talk to her so do you think i should talk to him or not and how do i start talkn too him
Audrina your awesome!
Hey,Audrina
I'm a huge fan and I give you, your props for being someone who I can respect. Don't let anyone change you! Can we be friends?
hi
Hi, im 15 and i don't like to be in large groups and i just wanted to know is that good or something
hey Audrina your soo gawjuz by the way!
im from Australia and a big fan of yours :)
at the moment i do acting at school and out of school and really love it and would love to be able to pursue it in America as i would love to live their one day so do you think it's worth it or should i just give up my dream?
xx
Hey Audrina,
I'll be 17 on the 10th of April and I have this big issue about my confidence.
2 Years ago I moved to UK from Lithuania, and I started being shy and scared to talk, because I'm worried all the time that people won't understand what im saying because english is my second language. And still I don't talk much because im afraid that someone won't understand what im saying, that caused me a lack of friends and extremely low self esteem.
Now I've been hanging out with two girls and I finaly started to feel better, and I wasn't as afraid or shy to talk to them, but now it kinda seems like they don't want me around anymore. I usually can't find them when we're at college and they never text back or pick up the phone when i try to find them... SO i spend most of my time alone now. I just don't know what to do, should I say something to them about how I feel? What would you do in my situation?
I'd really appreciate if you could give me some advice. I haven't told this to anyone...
Agne