Ask Audrina: Think Positive!

06/30/2008
Nikki,

You just have to believe in yourself and surround yourself with loved ones with positive energy. There are always going to be people judging you and your decisions, looks and such,  but at the end of the day no one is perfect. You have to live in the moment and make the best of it. Dance like no one's watching!! :) xo!

~~~

I admire that you don't care what anyone else thinks......how did you get that way? Any advice for me?

Nikki W.


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62 Comments:

Hey Audrina,
Since you live in L.A. and are on a show that films in primarily West Hollywood, where are your gays? I'm your biggest fan and always wondered how this show manages to keep the gay culture out of the scene. My gays and I love you and think your style is sickness. We just wondered if you ladies have a connection to the community here. Thoughts?


Heyy audrina,

What were you like as a teenager?Were you really popular in high school?

xoxo Lindsey


Hey Audrina!
I went to California this summer with one of my frinds who was born there , and we stayed at huntington beach and we saw you laying out with your friend and got a picture with you (:

i just wonderd if you rememberd. I have brown hair and my friend have very blonde hair. Anyways, thank you for the picture you took with us , it ment alot because we really hoped we would see a celebrity while we were there!


i really love the show and your my favorite on it , your gorgeous and sweet and realy funny. i love that , and i think your a good role model as well. :D
Love;
Maggie


oh yeah! i forgot to attach the picture (:
sorry!


Hey Audrina,
i'm 15 and i live in Belgium
The hills are on e of my favorite shows on tv
en you're the best one in it. I like you're clothes and stuf and i really wan't to have such a body like yours! But what i wan't to ask is if you had a myspace? You are pretty much my hero and i really wan't to see you in my live..
it's impossible i know but i really hope that it ever happin. (maybe it's not all correctly but i'm not really good in writting englisch)
lot's of love from Delphine


Hey audrinaaa x

Ommgosh i am soo soo glad you got yoour own website..although im forever on your myspace. hehehe!
You are just soo great in the hills,, you and lauren are my favvourite people on it.
Just wondering though..as it says on your info bit that ytou were chosen to become part of the hills? I thought it said on the show that you and heidi became friends as yous lived together??
Just a queary,,hehh!
anywayss loving the show and just cannot wait for series 4!
And season 3 finale waas soo sad with you and lauren but hopefully you guys pull through as your a great double act!! :)

love erin xxxxx


Hello Audrina,

I was wondering how you get through the ups and downs of guys? and how do you know if they like you back? Because I am currently crushing badly on a guy who I know will not see me as more than a friend. But I am not quite sure.

I would really appericate the advice.


Sincerely,
Jodi


Hi Audrina,
I am a 15 and I had a falling out with one of my good friends last year... I really miss her, but I don't know if I should call her or just let it be?

thanks,
Louisa


Hey Audrina,

Just wanted to give a shout out. Hope everything is going well with you. I wanted to make a comment about you and Lauren. I had a very closed friend of 10 years and we are no longer talking to each other. We were the best of friends until we lived together last year. I don't really know what went wrong but things start to fall apart and a lot of drama happened. So I guess I know what you are going through and I'm sorry...I know it tough and it's more tough for you best it's all on camera. But hopefully you guys can patch things up. Well I know you're a very busy person so I'll keep this short. Love your show and best wishes!

~Kristin


hey Audrina,
how does a fan go about meeting you? your a really awesome person from what i see on the hills. i was listening to the radio the other day and i heard you said that the hills is fake? is that true or false? either way its still my favorite show. is your personality the same on and off the show? well i hope all is well i'm going to have to go rent your movie=0) i love you.

-*-Amanda-*- let me know if your ever in fl i'm in st augustine its a very beautiful place you should come visit=0)


Hey Audrina,
I'm only 13 years old and i just moved to a new town the school i will be going to is very big and i am not good at making friends. what should i do to make my self comfortable talking to the girls there?
i love your show!!


hi
well i wanted to know where do you get your fasion from

because i love your fasion like omg


Hi dear Audrina!!
I sent you a letter and some pics to this address:

Audrina Patridge
c/o Agency for Performing Arts
405 S. Beverly Dr.
Beverly Hills, CA 90212

and i wanted to ask will you get it from there? is that address still working for you??
please answer, it's really important for me.

best wishes!!


Audrina
what up girl.
I'm a huge fan of the television show and I just wanted you to know that.
Quick questions.
I read on Perez (i know sue me) that it is completely fake an that you don't even like Lauren that much...?
Second: I'm dying to have a job in the music industry being and agent, and i just wanted to know what steps it took you to move to Los Angeles and find an affordable place to live/ a car. From the Midwest here girl.
Loves it
Sasha


Hey Audrina,
First off I wanna say I admire you so much. You put up with a lot of sh*t from Lo and you totally don't deserve it. Second of all, how do you manage to stay so grounded with all the media attention and the attention the show is getting?


Hi Audrina and I am in my senior year of high school I just started and its getting really stressfull and there is a lot of pressure to succeed I was wondering how did you deal with everything in your senior year and how to overcome the stress and have a fun year?

really appreciated!
Alissa K.


Hey Audrina I am a big fann of you!
My question is that do you like lauren now or did you ever actually become friends with her since you have said its all fake?


Audrina-

You remind me of myself. Please stay strong! Some of those gals are as you said, "Super bitchy!" And honey, let me tell you... they are soooooo jealous. Go towards the light. Best thing to do when you are around evil jerks, walk away and surround yourself with nice people. All of those girls are only mean b/c you are so pretty and wayyy cooler than the rest. You are not catty & they can't handle you. Just never let them think its you, because its not .. its them and their jealousy.
I think Brody is in love with you - don't let little miss boss, lauren stand in the way! (Although, your better off staying away from him anyway). Just stay strong and true. You are so pretty and they ALL are jealous and petty.


I am a fan of the show in london and admire you for you postivity and style!
i am very petite and quite short(5"4)
i love you style but find it hard to be stylish when it so cold here in london!
any tips!?
Yasmin,15
x


I've watched a couple of videos of you and the popperotsies(however you spell it)hehehe..and I love the way you are how you talk to them and just go about your business..Lo and Lauren are soo not friendly when it comes to that..they practically run from them..but I guess until you are put into that situation..different people act differently.. loves ya


Audrina!I Love You!no,not like that!lol!you are my favorite personality in the Hills!I love how you are so classy,and always manage to present yourself in such a cool,calm,collected way.I like how you're not all about drama,and the way you handle yourself during certain situations.You are very sincere,caring,and nurturing.Rock On girl,your beautiful ways will take you far!I've been in the same situation with my ex,just like you have been with justin bobby,how have you managed to deal?can you share sum advice?


Audrina!I Love You!no,not like that!lol!you are my favorite personality in the Hills!I love how you are so classy,and always manage to present yourself in such a cool,calm,collected way.I like how you're not all about drama,and the way you handle yourself during certain situations.You are very sincere,caring,and nurturing.Rock On girl,your beautiful ways will take you far!I've been in the same situation with my ex,just like you have been with justin bobby,how have you managed to deal?can you share sum advice?


I just saw on your myspace page that you are in a relationship....who's the lucky guy?? Is it that skater, Corey??

Hope you answer!

Best wishes from NORWAY!!


I LOVE THE SHOW.. YOU AND LAUREN MEAN ALOT TOO ME, IT MAKES ME SO MAD THAT LO IS BEING SO SLEFISH, BUT IF YOU WATCH THE SHOW YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT LAUREN HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LO'S BITCHY ATTITUDE. I ONLY HAVE ONE QUESTION, I READ THAT THEY FOUND YOU ON THE BEACH, AND ASKED YOU IF YOU WANTED TO BE ON THE SHOW.. IS THAT TRUE OR DID YOU AND LAUREN REALLY KNOW EACHOTHER BEFORE THE SHOW, ARE YOU TRULY FRIENDS OR ONLY FRIENDS CUZ YOU HAVE TO BE? IF YOU ARE TRULY FRIENDS I THINK YOU GUYS SHOULD KICK OUT LO AND ENJOY WHAT USED TO BE.. OH AND TELL LAUREN THAT BRODY AND HER ARE MEANT TO BE, BUT ONLY IF HE CAN KEEP HIS EYES TO HIM SLEF.. WELL GOOD LUCK..


Hey Audrina! I watch every episode of The Hills and I too have been in situations when it comes to my friends and my relationships. I totally understand were you get that whole mind your business thing, but I don't understand why you and Lauren aren't so close anymore? If it's because of LO, You and Lauren are great friends and yeah she gives you advice but she does it with good intentions. You guys are total opposites which is great cause you wouldn't clash heads as much. Lo has been rude but I think it's because she feels you are taking her best friend away from her and she doesn't like that. I think you should totally ignore her and don't let what she does or the way she acts get in the way of you and Laurens friendship! Why do you let Lo get to you?


hey Audrina! my name is Brittney, im 18 and im from Canada. and we loveee the hills over here! and we all love you! it really sucks that in the first couple of episodes this season you and Lauren havent been getting along to well, because of Lo. i love you and Lauren as best friends and i definatly think you guys will work threw it. i just wanted to know how you and Lauren were doing? are you guys good again? its weird how much we get involved in whats going on in your lives because we watch you guys all the time and we actually start caring about conflicts and probelms you guys are having. just wanted to let you know Canada LOVES you and i really hope everything with you and Lauren are okay! team Audrina!! xo


Every epsiode always keeps us asking for more.. how do u deal with the relationship you have with justin if you guys are just friends? but he always seems like he wants more? it takes a very strong willed woman to stay positive in those situations..


Hi Audrina! Well, fall is coming soon, and I was wondering if you could fill me any on any tips to use for the fall, such as what styles are in, and what makeup or acessories are hot? Thanks!
xoxo


Hi Audrina!I am 17 and i like one girl even i think that i love her but i just can't tell her about my fellings.Can you give me an advice what to do please :(


Hi Audrina!I am 17 and i like one girl even i think that i love her but i just can't tell her about my fellings.Can you give me an advice what to do please :(


hey hon! i just had a question about your career at epic records, because i would someday love to work for a record label like fearless records.
what exactly do you do there and what qualities or education do you need to become an intern or employee there?? any advise or comments would be greatly appreciated! :)
thanks audrina!


hey hon! i just had a question about your career at epic records, because i would someday love to work for a record label like fearless records.
what exactly do you do there and what qualities or education do you need to become an intern or employee there?? any advise or comments would be greatly appreciated! :)
thanks audrina!


hey! i was just wondering how you managed to get your job you have. i would love it and just have been thinking how to get into a career like that. if you could, just let me know. music is one of my faaavorite things. :]


heyy Audrina,
I just wanted to ask why did you move out on thursday? It looked like you and Lauren and LO were finally getting along. Plus Not to sound like a stalker but i sawl the hollywood tv video it looked sooo sad.
Hope your new house is great,
Alexis


Hey Audrina,
Im an up and coming model based in San Diego with my husband that in the Marine. Im 19 and love modeling and cant wait until my big break my husband is a performer music is his passion he has his first show in Hollywood on the 25th i was wondering if i could have a helping hand to get my name and pictures out into Hollywood..Do you have any suggestions? i'd really appreciate it! thanks! =)


Hey Audrina!
On The Hills(And obviousley in real life!) you seem so happy,and always Positive. I would like to know how you always seem to stay positive no matter what. You are such a good influence to young girls. I truley admire the person you are. I hope I turn out to be like you. But seriousely you are like the most positive person ever which is truley amazing.xoxox,


Hello , my name is kristine :)
and i am from norway ;) i love the hills<3
you and lauren is soo beautiful , i love you <3
i am hoping the thing between you and lauren soon is over ;D so you gays is friends :D:D


Hey Audrina, I was looking at a fan site and there were some pictures of you from October 1ST, you were visiting Lauren at her house and you were wearing a beige shirt with a white beret (hat) and i was just wondering were you bought it at? you also have one in blue you were wearing it one night you were out with your sister and you had on a black shirt with a skull on it so any ways were do you get your hats there so cute i love them! Thanks :)


Audrina, I am a 31 yr old mother of two who has been around and lived life and I love the hills....so please believe me when I say...All that is going on with you and Lauren is all a lie...Miserable people love company...I wish there were a Lauren and Audrina in my days...you guys are good examples of what girls should be.


hey im only 15 n i got in this big fight wit my ex best fran n then we became back frans n her gf dont like me(which is my step cuz)n now when she is around she dont want nothin to do wit me,
but here is another thing me n my best fran got into it n i need someone to talk to n everything well im always here for her n everything im here when she need someone to talk to but 2 nights ago i asked her to talk to me n she said watever n then i went off on her n everything n then she told me that im a fatass n that i dont need to bring my dead grandmother in everything n thats hurts wat should i do please help me..


Hey Audrina! First off you are beautiful:)

I am 13 and I have problem talking to most
of the girls. I am a typical preppy guy, but
sometimes I just have nothing to talk about with the girls. Maybe I'm just a boring person, but when I am around other guys I have tons of stuff to talk about and I get really talkative, but around girls I am either too shy to say something or just dont know what to talk about. Can you give me an advice?


Hey Audrina,

I was just wondering, what makes you think that Lauren would hook up with Justin? You have been friends for such a long time, and now you are going to let some guy, that has obviously hurt you before, come between you and a best friend? I find this whole situation so stupid. If I were you, I would not call Lauren, if you really think that she might have done it, then go to the house and talk to her face to face. Honestly, I wouldn't be suprised if she slams the door in your face for even THINKING about her doing something like this to you. This is all so ridiculous. Think about it...do you really think that Lauren would go from guys like Jason, Brody, and Doug, to .....Justin Bobby? Please. No offense but he isn't the classiest guy around. I am not trying to come off as a bitch, it just bothers me that you are going to let a stupid rumor, that everyone basically knows isn't true, come between you and Lauren.


Hey Audrina,
I just wanna say your like the prettiest person ever! and I want to know how you deal with rumors and finding out who your true friends are? I'm 14 and my supposed to be best friend started this really nasty rumor about me and every time i ask her if it was her she denies it but my friend was standing right next to her when she said it. And its gotta so bad i cant even go to some classes anymore without people talking about me. It only my first year at high school and people already hate me. What should i do?


xo Melanie


Hey Audrina!

Your job at Sony Records and in the music business is my dream! In one episode of the hills, you mentioned how you've gone to shows ever since you were fifteen, and how you love music. I'm just like that too! I'm fourteen now, so I was wondering if you have any advice or pointers on how to pursue this kind of career?

Thanks so much!
-Phoebe


Hi Audrina,
I am a big fan of yours and all the great work you constantly do every single week on the hills. I have two questions. My first question is how do you suggest in finding a girlfriend. My second question is what advice would you give me ab out becoming involved in the entertainment business. Are there any classes you feel that are realy important to get involved in the entertainment business.


Hey Drina...ok so I have a questions. Do you really think LC and Justin Bobbie hooked up?Whats your view on it all? I know you have moved out of LC and Lo's house. Do you like the new house? Are you really starting a new spin off? And are you and Heidi getting closer too? I hope LC and Heidi make up and Heidi dumps Spencer...he's such a loser. anyway ttyl

♥sasha


this isnt really about the topic, but i was reading about the whole rumor situation between you and lauren and i just wanted to say, i dont think lauren would do any thing like to you. i believe it is all a rumor started by someone with to much time on there hands. i think your friendship is strong enough and you will get through this. my deepest sincerity goes out to, i bet its a hard time. well i hope everything works out and you guys continue to be great friends.
<3 sabrina


Heyy Andrina!

I love the show, it's great! I heard your quiting it though :( But i have a problem, everytime i see you and Justin on their it reminds me of my boyfriend and how he acts. His name is Justin too. But I just don't know how not to care about the things he does and just move on. We have been together for almost two years off and on. I have tried to date other people but its just not the same. I feel like the right thing would be to do is move on, but then again if i saw him out with another girl it would kill me. Any help?

Thanks!
Lynn.


Hey Audrina,
I love the Hills and I love you. I think you are an awesome person and i was so sad you didnt endd up coming to Toronto for the after show lol, i was there. I have been reading some comments on your site and I am not impressed. TV doesnt show enough for people to judge you, lauren or any one else because no body knows you personally. I dont know if this is the right placee to post the questions i have, but oh well. I just want to know how you deal with all the negative feedback? Like when people write on here how shady lauren is or even say bad things about you what do you do about it. I would hate having people judge me and my friends when they dont know me at all. Did you find out if the rumours were true?


hey audrina,
did you ever go to college?i'm 20 years old and not to sure on the whole school thing i don't think its really for me i love music,fashion,and art i think your job at epic is great i would love to get a job like that how did you get it?
xosamantha


hey audrina, im 15 and really love music not a certin genre but all kinds of music... i think you work or worked for a record label in LA and i was wondering what it was like? I really want to move down to california and work with a record label but what do you do? I just was curious and passionate about music and i wanted to see what yo did?


Audrina,

I live in Canada and the weather is getting pretty cold right now. Im wondering, what are your favourite types of winter clothes?

-Samantha


Audrina!

How do you deal? Im a sensitive person and im a lot like you in a lot of ways, I let things go.. I try to keep my shut but sometimes I read what these ignorant people say and how do you really ignore it or take it in? I feel for you.. For what its worth. I just love you! = ] Im a huge fan. I know it has to be hard.. So I thought Id write you and let you know you have amazing fans and we love you. Smile!

-Lindsay


heyyy Audrina :)


i was just woundering if you knew when season three of the hills was going to come on dvd to australia?

x


Hey Audrina !,

My name is Jamie. I just graduated high school and, going to a community college close to were I live. But I still don't know what I want to choose as a career. I would really like to work for a big music company, like you do.I just love listening to music. I always have my ipod on me. I have seen that on the hills you work for a music company and, I would like to know what to study and, what to do in order to get a job like that and, work with a music company.

thnxs alot,
Big Hills Fan
Jamie


sup Audrina, i think loyalty is the most important thing in a friendship. I was wandering what is ur most important thing to u in a friendship?


hey audrina i love the hills and am a big fan of yours are you going to be looking for any more acting roles??
xx


Hi,
I´m from Sweden and I´m thinking about starting a blog about you in swedish.
Is that okay?
You can email me.


Hi Audrina,
I just wanted to tell you to keep your head up in regards to the break in. My house was broken into one day about 6 yrs ago, while I was at home. I was laying on the bed watching tv and all of the sudden my bedroom door opened. At first I thought it was my ex bf because he still had a key to the house, so I was like 'hello??'. Well all of the sudden the gut took off running and went out the front door. It was only after I called my ex bf that I realized that it wasn't him. The guy had broken a window in my dining room and opened it and came in. The police said it was probably a young guy just looking for something to sell for drugs or something. It scared me so bad that I started hearing noises all the time for a while. But eventually I got my life back in order and regained my sense of safety in my home and you will too. Good luck to you hon.
Kellie
btw I'm 43, not a kid, but adore your show lol.


Hi Audrina,
I think you just got an email in www.myspace.com
;)


Hi Audrina!!
OMGOMG i just heard you're comin 2 Sydney????? (mtvawards.com.au)
is it true your gonna be on the red carpet @ 8pm at the MTV Australia Awards?!?! can we come & support you????


hey audrina im a big fan of yours and i to want to be an actress and i just wanted to know what school did you attended and how can i get agent to represent me and get me some gigs because i did attended to some acting classes in LA but since then i cant seem to move forward any advise will be help full please email me at leyvaguadalupe@gmail.com i would love to hear your advise


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